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Would You Wednesday: Without Resolve

By Kirsten|December 29th, 2010|Why Did or Why Don't?|

The end of 2010 is quickly approaching and we’re all getting a little nostalgic. Every year, people set unrealistic expectations for the upcoming year promising to exercise more, work harder, and generally be better people. I don’t see anything wrong with reflecting on the past year, but perhaps promising yourself something totally outrageous is a bit overzealous.

It seems like a good idea in theory, but how many people are successful with their resolutions? Oh, I should be fluent in French, weight 14 lbs, and have a wallet that doesn’t fit in my purse by now but that didn’t seem to happen. Whoops. So what are some realistic resolutions? Why not vow to stay in touch with old friends and family? Perhaps try taking up an interesting exercise class or start a new hobby. Telling yourself you’re going to cure cancer or cellulite might end up in disappointment. (Though I’d like someone to go ahead and cure both).

So what do you think? Will you be making a New Year’s resolution or not?

xx,

WhyDid

Why Did or Why Don’t: To Regift or Not To Regift?

By Kirsten|December 15th, 2010|Why Did or Why Don't?|

Speaking of gifts, what do you do when on the receiving end of a horrible gift from a friend or loved one? I mean… it is the thought that counts… right? I have received some pretty horrific gifts and I must say, it’t pretty disappointing when the tissue paper is peeled away to reveal something utterly revolting. Do you have to fake smile and tell them you love it (only to pass it along like a hot potato)? Do you ask for the gift receipt? Do you keep it and attempt to use it/wear it? Or do you sever ties with the horrible gift giver… because they clearly don’t know you at all?

So is regifting okay?

xx,

WhyDid

Why Did You Date Him: If You Have to Ask…

By Kirsten|December 8th, 2010|Why Did or Why Don't?, Why Did You Date Him?|

I should be shot for admitting this… but the other day I was watching Married to Rock on E! (I know) and one of the women on the show- I believe her name is AJ- decided that it was time to take matters into her own hands. She is the only one on the show who is not officially “married” to rock. Apparently feeling left out, she hits the jeweler and picks out a rock for herself and starts to plan a grand proposal to her rocker love.

Um, I don’t want to be the bearer of bad news… but if you have to ask… you probably already know the answer. There is no reason that you should need to go out and buy your own ring (not to mention his) and essentially propose to yourself. If a man wants to marry you, he will.

By putting your man on the spot, you may end up with an unwanted outcome. We all know, most men would probably rather remove their own penises before having to tell you the awful truth. So, while he may say “yes” out of sheer horror, I fear that you may be in for your very own frightfest down the road when he realizes he doesn’t want to go through with it.

There are some gender roles that don’t need to be reversed. Just sayin…

So, would you propose to your man?

xx,

WhyDid

Would You Wednesday: Wife Under the Knife

By Kirsten|December 2nd, 2010|Why Did or Why Don't?|

So, I meant to write about this a while ago… actually as soon as I’d seen the promotional commercial for it. Bridalplasty. What the $*#&? Really?

If you have no idea what I’m talking about, (and I applaud you if that’s the case) Bridalplasty is a show on E! where the contestants are competing not only for dream wedding worth $100,000, but also a brand new face and body. I attempted to watch the entire show, but I could only get through a portion. Part of that had to do with the sheer ridiculousness of it all and the other part was my inability to stare at Shanna Moakler’s poorly done yellow hair. (I mean, forget Botox, a good dye job can do wonders). Anyway, most of the girls on the show are already pretty. There is nothing wrong with them. These are not deformed women who have experienced traumatic accidents and disfigurement. I mean, they’re no Heidi or Giselle’s, but really, who is?

Good lord, women! Did you learn nothing from Heidi Montag? Last I checked, she wants her old face back! I have heard of bridezillas and about girls getting cah-raaaaazy about their weddings, but I think this has taken things a bit (and by a bit I mean quantum leaps) too far. I know every little girl wants to look pretty for her big white wedding, however, getting a whole new appearance just seems sick. Why not just hire a body double? Life isn’t an episode of Nip/Tuck. Would you go under the knife for your big day?

xx,

WhyDid

Would You Wednesday: Fresh Ink

By Kirsten|November 24th, 2010|Why Did or Why Don't?|

Lots of beautiful young startlets and young ladies I know have covered their pretty and perfect skin with tattoos. Whether it be the good ol fashion tramp stamp or something discreet on their back, wrist, or rib cage, they’ve all branded themselves with something. Some are gentle reminders to themselves, others have a deeper meaning, and some are just “cute.”

This is not me knocking the tattoo trend because I have my very own little bit of ink. I got it a couple of years ago and it’s teeny tiny. So tiny that, in fact, I startle myself sometimes when I see it because I’ve forgotten that it’s there. It’s not something that I totally regret, but now I’m kind of over it and have definitely considered getting it removed.

So, I’m kind of just wondering if others out there are debating the same thing. Or maybe some of you out there are debating your first tattoo. Maybe you can’t decide what you want to go or maybe you aren’t sure if you really want one.

Do you think this is just a trend that we will all regret or is it something that is worth having for a lifetime? My only advice? Don’t get any boy’s name emblazoned on your body! Tattoos last and unfortunately, sometimes boyfriends don’t.