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Setting the Mood: Fifty Shades of White

By Kirsten|December 3rd, 2012|Setting the Mood|

It is upon us. The bone chilling, dark at 3pm, hibernation inducing months of winter. And while the delicately falling snowflakes sure do make for a beautiful backdrop (until the garbage trucks and foot traffic destroy the pristine piles of snow turning them into straight slush), it can be easy to want to just wrap yourself up in the all black uniform of winter. However, in the past couple of years and this one most noticeably, the once faux pas after Labor Day white accessories have become the “it” girl’s go to for breaking up a mostly dark ensemble. Do winter white from head to toe, or just accent your head and toes with white accessories. But remember, we’re channeling a soft snowflake, not the abominable snowman.

Milly Claudine Coat, $645, Charlotte Olympia Love Dolly Twill and Calf Hair Pumps, $1,050, Augden Lofty Cowl Scarf, $198, Loeffler Randall The Rider Bag, $495

xx,

WhyDid

Why Did You Wear That: Dress Up

By Kirsten|November 28th, 2012|Personal Style, Why Did You Wear That?|

It’s always so relaxing to go home. There are no worries, no pressure, nothing to do, and I gain about ten pounds. Turns out, the fine folks here are not particularly interested in juicing, Pilates, or whether or not hunting gear should be worn to dinner at Applebee’s. That said, I am looking forward to heading home (to New York), starting a cleanse, and hitting the treadmill– hard. In the meantime, I played a little game of dress up in a sweater dress of my mother’s that I’ve been eying for several years. It hung in my closet in New York for a bit, but never got any play because I couldn’t quite figure out when and where I wanted to wear it, so I returned it during my West Coast intermission. Now seems like the perfect time for this knit confection to make its way back to my closet once again. Let’s give it another go. Whaddya say?

dress: vintage, bag: Balenciaga, boots: All Saints, hat: Croft & Barrow

Thanks, mom.

xx,

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Why Did You Wear That: Nightie Night

By Kirsten|November 27th, 2012|Why Did You Wear That?|

Along with spritzing myself with a bit of perfume before bed, I also enjoy a good nightie. No, I don’t mean a nightcap, although I do enjoy those too. I am talking about a good ol’ fashion nightgown. Maybe not the style that the Golden Girls don- but now that you mention it, I love those too- I’m just talking about a simple chemise in satin, silk, chiffon, or the softest cotton. Yes, it’s true. I’m a lady.

Sure, in the 90’s we all did the whole “boxer shorts” or Soffe cheer shorts thing, but I never could get down with the women who ended up wearing giant flannels or nasty t-shirts and ratty old boxers. Girlfriend, take a little pride in your night attire. If your man wanted to go to bed with his pal, Larry, he would… and in that case, Larry would know better than to wear that stained USC shirt to bed with his boo. I get the irony: this is all very hilarious coming from a lady who sleeps alone, but I stand firm.

Over the years I’ve amassed quite the collection of nighties and knickers. So many that the ones that did not fit inside my closet (yes, there are more) are hanging “decoratively” on my closet door handles. I know what you’re thinking… “How is this girl single?!” No? That wasn’t what you were thinking. Hm… Anyway, it’s true, I don’t get invited to too many sleepovers anymore. No more pillow fights or Truth or Dare for me, but I always am sure to be wearing my boudoir best ’cause you never know who you might meet in your dreams.

1. Elle Macpherson Intimates Obsidian Phoenix Lace Trimmed Stretch Silk Satin Chemise, $175, 2. Eberjey Leonora Lace Trimmed Chemise, $97, 3. Stella McCartney Clara Whispering Stretch Silk Chemise, $250, 4. The Lake and Stars Royale Chemise, $122.50, 5. Julianne Aimee Chemise, $137.50, 6. Honeydew Intimates Emma Elegance Chemise, $45, 7. Only Hearts Sara’s Lace Chemise, $52.50, 8. Cosabella Peacock Babydoll, $193.50, 9. Hanky Panky Sheer Enchantment Babydoll, $98, 10. Chantelle Eternelle Chemise, $135

Sleep tight, or not.

xx,

WhyDid

WhyDid Wisdom: Safe Shopping

By Kirsten|November 26th, 2012|WhyDid Wisdom|

Like I said, large crowds of rabid consumers frighten me. However, I do love getting a good deal. Therefore, Cyber Monday is right up my alley. I like to pride myself on being a pretty elite online shopper. I’d say my return rate (as in “WTF, why did I order this?”) is fairly low. So, in case you still have a little bit of cash left after throwing elbows on Black Friday, here are a few of my favorite things that you can scoop up from the safety of your own home…

One of my absolute favorite things in life is perfume. Fun fact: I put on perfume before bed (and I sleep alone) because I just love the way it smells. Atelier Cologne is some of the most beautiful smelling perfume on the planet and today, you can take advantage of a little extra something when you purchase a full size bottle. My go to is Vanille Insensee.

Shopping isn’t all about purchasing shoes and handbags. How is a lady to fit into her new leather leggings when she’s just lived off of pumpkin pie and hot toddies for an entire week. I can’t believe I’m actually giving away this little secret, but my favorite Pilates studio in Manhattan has quite the deal happening. Check out Chelsea Movements‘ The Perfect Ten deal.

Chelsea Movements Pilates

You know what my favorite kind of party is? A panty party. Fortunately, Cosabella is offering 30% off on all their entire site. So, perhaps I won’t be sleeping alone too much longer!

And get yourself or your friends some holiday bling with 40% off on Gorjana Jewelry.

The cold weather in NY is sure to give you pink cheeks, but how about procuring some cheek stains just in case? … so let’s all just go ahead and stock up now at Tarte with a 25% discount!

Safety first!

xx,

WhyDid

The List Volume Blackout

By Kirsten|November 24th, 2012|The List|

No, I wasn’t absent from the internet yesterday because I was busy bashing in skulls in hopes of acquiring a fifty inch plasma to watch “Keeping Up with the Kardashians.” I was busy digesting my Thanksgiving dinner… and that took a lot of hard work and concentration… or wine. To be quite clear, I find Black Friday to be all my worst nightmares and biggest fears combined. It’s kind of the same way I feel about fake handbags. I find it hard enough to shop busy stores on your average Tuesday, let alone when all the animals have been let out of their cages and taunted with raw meat. There are about a billion other things I’d rather do than fight over a cashmere scarf marked down 50%… ten of which are listed here. The only type of bargain shopping I will submit myself to are the deals that can be found behind the safety of my computer screen. That said, I didn’t figure it’d be in good taste to complain after my last post. So I’ve decided to be a bit charitable today and have found you ten places better to throw your hard earned money: small businesses and charities.

Not sure where to start? Check out American Express for a list of retailers participating in Small Business Saturday.
As obsessed with your dog/cat as I am with Smitty? Help out all the other furry little creatures by donating or volunteering with the ASPCA.
Mikini Bikini is offering 10% off with code COLORFULFRIDAY at checkout.
Got kids? Got siblings? Like kids? Stop human trafficking by supporting Children of the Night.
Looking for something to do December 10th? Look no further. Buy your tickets for Charity Water’s Charity Ball right here.
Speaking of kids… this one won’t even cost you any money. Become a Big Brother or Big Sister.
If you’re in New York, Darling is offering 25% off purchases (and trust me, it lives up to the name).
Another one for the kids: Petit Organics is offering 25% off all orders today!
Shop Alex and Ani today and get 10% off of your entire purchase.
Kill two birds with one click. Shop and support a great cause with rad apparel from TWLOHA (To Write Love on Her Arms).