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WhyDid Wisdom: One Fish, Two Fish, Red Fish…

By Kirsten|January 12th, 2012|WhyDid Wisdom|

As we headed home for the holidays, we were forced to remember where we came from. Pretty or not as that place may be, it’s part of who we are and we should never forget it. Many of us have migrated from our small hometowns to bigger, busier cities, while others never left their childhood haunts. Neither is right or wrong; merely a matter of taste, circumstance, or predisposition.

You may have heard people throw around the phrase “big fish in a small pond” from time to time, but what does that really mean? Basically what it implies is that someone may be considered a “big deal” in a small city (a big fish in small pond), but wouldn’t even be a blip on the radar in a bigger city (pond). Sometimes we think that because we’re making big splashes in our small towns that we’re sure to make a wake in a larger lake… but that may not always be the case. While some fish may thrive in a new big pond, others will flounder and struggle to swim.

You may have also thought about this phrase the other way around… “little fish in a big pond.” Maybe you like to swim under the radar and being a little fish in a big pond feels more comfortable. I once had a friend tell me that she would never move to a big city because she preferred being the big fish in her small pond. Honesty is a virtue, I suppose. And, well, maybe she was on to something. Oftentimes, people leave their lagoons in hopes of making it big in a big city —- only to return with broken dreams and bruised egos.

Whether you choose to stick close to the shore of your small pond or head out into the current of the great sea, there will always be bigger fish (and maybe even some sharks). It’s important to keep that in mind seeing as they could chew you up or just swallow you whole.

Fish don’t have feet, so they’re kind of stuck where they were hatched. Luckily, we have more options. Planes, trains, and automobiles can get us just about anywhere the mind can fathom.

I have always wondered whether people would rather be a big fish in a little pond or a little fish in a big pond. I think I’d rather be a mermaid… but seeing as that’s not an option, I’d go with the little fish in a big pond. Gives me plenty of room to grow.

xx,

WhyDid

Why Did You Wear That: Wear the Rainbow

By Kirsten|January 12th, 2012|Why Did You Wear That?|

When I walked into the fifth floor of Saks a couple of weeks ago, my eyes lit up as I saw a table of denim in almost every color in the rainbow. I love jeans and making them in different colors is merely an excuse for me to buy more… cause I need a pair of lavender jeans, don’t I? Right. For a while denim has been clean, skinny, and dark (thank God, we’ve moved past that whole “distressed”, rhinestoned, whiskered phase). We saw the emergence of red denim this past year, but it hasn’t been since Bongo jeans and snap crotch bodysuits that I’ve seen such a variety of saturated shades. Have I dated myself? No? Cotempo Casuals, anyone? Here’s a roundup of some of my favorite shades that I can’t wait to wear.

Top (L to R): AG Adriano Goldschmied The Stilt Cigarette Pants in Neon Yellow, $159, 7 for All Mankind Skinny Twill Jeans in Neon Yellow, $169, J Brand Skinny Twill Pants in Canary, $176, 7 for All Mankind Gwenevere Skinny Jeans in Deep Canteloupe, $169, Joe’s Colored Skinny Jeans in Nectar, $158, J Brand Skinny Twill Pants in Fraise, $176

Bottom (L to R): J Brand Skinny Twill Pants in St. Tropez, $176, AG Adriano Goldschmied The Stilt Cigarette Jeans in Highlighter Blue, $159, Joe’s Colored Skinny Jeans in French Blue, $158, Rag & Bone The Skinny Jeans in Royal, $176, 7 for All Mankind Skinny Twill Jeans in Light Purple, $169, 7 for All Mankind Skinny Twill Jeans in Neon Pink, $169

Now you’re pants can be as bright as you are.

xx,

WhyDid

Why Did You Wear That: Power to the People

By Kirsten|January 11th, 2012|Red Carpet Recap, Why Did You Wear That?|

Alright, so I didn’t actually watch the People’s Choice Awards because well… as Gawker best summarized… they suck. However, I did go ahead and check out what the ladies were wearing on the red carpet. (I needed to see whether the gals of Hollywood had better taste in attire than America does in television/movies). And much like my senior highschool yearbook signatures, there were a few recurring themes. While my yearbook’s themes were how much statistics sucked, my indecision over which college I would attend, and “I’m so glad we became friends,” the trends of this year’s People’s Choice Awards were the new nude, ongoing green, and leather and lace. I’m on board with all three of these trends… though my patience is starting to grow thin with green. Check out some of the highlights below.

Kaley Cuoco, Jennifer Morrison in Oscar de la Renta, Lea Michele in Marchesa, Miley Cyrus in David Koma

Kristen Bell in Valentino, Ashley Greene in DKNY

Nina Dobrev in Elie Saab, Emma Stone in Gucci, Chloe Moretz in Proenza Schouler, Whitney Cummings

So, who did you think was best (and worst) dressed? We are the “people” afterall.

xx,

WhyDid

Smart is the New Pretty: Ahead of the Game

By Kirsten|January 11th, 2012|Smart Is the New Pretty, WhyDid Wisdom|

It’s no secret that smart is the new pretty, so how about we start this year off with some more knowledge? Anyone can look good in designer duds, but it’s the girl with the knowing look that ends up the belle of the ball.

But perhaps you aren’t at any balls, yet are still searching for love. Dine with a stranger can help with that. [Mashable]
What search engine do you use anyway? Probably not Yahoo! According to these numbers: Bada-bing! [Tech Crunch]
Think you have nothing in common with dolphins and monkeys? Uh… think again. [Mashable]
Speaking of animals, who the hell is buying all of these Crocs? No, seriously. [NY Mag]
Probably the same people who eat Twinkies…. oh wait. [Gawker]
If you already love Shazam… you’re really going to love it now. Providing lyrics to all your heart’s desire, it wants to be your music player too. [Mashable]
Which may come in handy when trying to decipher the Tim Tebow inspired “St. Elmo’s Fire” remake. [People]
Oh wait… LL Cool J wants a piece of this music social networking too. Ladies do love cool James… [Mashable]
Welp, if you’re in NY, you should probably go head over to Apple’s education event next week so you can start your own social network (I mean, everybody else is). [TechCrunch]
Either that or book yourself a one way ticket to Mars. [Huffington Post]

xx,
WhyDid

Gift Guide: My Fair Maidens

By Kirsten|January 10th, 2012|Gift Guide|

Some day you may meet a handsome, kind gentleman who will ask for your hand in marriage. And while you may think that meeting the man of your dreams was the hardest part, buckle up baby- wedding planning is a whole new kind of stressful.

One of the easiest parts should be asking your best pals to stand by your side during your special day… but well, sometimes that part is difficult too. Anyway, once you’ve decided who, you should decide how? You can’t just text your friends to pop the question, afterall. I’ve had friends send scavenger hunts, and awful dresses to be photographed in. Brides to be are getting more and more creative in their “Will you?” presentations.

One of my favorite approaches is a gift bag chocked full of bridesmaid essentials. Be sure to show them how much they really mean to you by putting together a gift bag with special items that may come in handy either during or before your impending nuptials. Perhaps if your wedding is that of the destination type or even a “surprise” destination, use this as an opportunity to provide clues. While you may be thinking, “Gosh, this is pricey,” don’t forget how much money your best gal pals will have to dish out for showers, and bachelorette parties, and dresses, oh my! You’ve been a bridesmaid a time or two… remember?