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Friday Frocks: Going Green

By Kirsten|March 16th, 2012|Friday Frocks, Why Did You Wear That?|

I’m not typically someone who gets all decked out in green for St. Patrick’s Day. It seems a bit trite and if you try pinching me because I don’t abide, I may very well punch you. However, green has been having quite a moment. So, perhaps it would be a bit easier to find something attractive, not tacky, to sport during the beer fueled festivities. In order to still look like a lady rather than leprechaun, try these frocks that’ll have you going green whether it be mossy, minty, or military.

1. Old Navy Belted Pocket Jersey Dress, $29.94, 2. ABS Allen Schwartz Kate Wrap Dress, $118, 3. T-Bags Green Jersey Ruffle Front Dress, $89.99, 4. BCBGMAXAZRIA Angelika Drape Dress, $178, 5. Four Square Dress, $44.99, 6. under.ligne Mesh Strap Drape Dress, $495, 7. Merona Ponte Ruffle Sheath Dress, $20.98, 8. Tibi Draped Shift Dress, $450, 9. byCORPUS Knit Hi Low Open Back Dress, $19.99, 10. ASOS Dress with Peplum, $39.39

Never iron a four-leaf clover, because you don’t want to press your luck. -Author Unknown

xx,

WhyDid

WhyDid Wisdom: City Girl in the Suburbs

By Kirsten|March 15th, 2012|WhyDid Wisdom|

A couple of years ago, I was itching to make my final exodus from New York City. You see, we’ve had a fairly emotionally abusive relationship. When it was good, it was a twenty-four hour honeymoon, but when it was bad, I wanted a divorce. The things I once loved became those that I loathed. The city will beat you down and bring you to your knees and when you’re just about to give up, Spring arrives and you are reminded, once again, why it is you fell in love with this glorious city in the first place.

I never even wanted to live in New York. As a matter of fact, I was certain that when I graduated from college I’d be on my way to sunny California. But Dame Nature (that silly bitch) had other plans and in a twist of fate, I landed an internship at Escada my junior year of college. One summer in the big city and I was sold. California who?

You see, New York is the type of place that you either love of hate, sink or swim. If you happen to be one of the ones who loves it, it gets under your skin and there is no way to shake it. Ever. Any other city is second rate. While Los Angeles has the sunshine, it’ll never compare. Sorry, San Francisco, you’re a beautiful city, but you’ll just never do. There is one city that reigns supreme… and that’s the Big Apple- despite all its flaws.

Well, a couple of years ago, New York and I had a trial separation. I left the bright lights, tall buildings, and bad attitudes for the other coast. I thought I was ready for a quiet, “normal”, simple life. I thought I was done with New York. It was great to give Smitty a yard and a place to stretch his furry little legs. I enjoyed living in a space larger than a walk-in closet. I wanted to love it. I tried to love it, but there was nothing for me to do. I was completely unstimulated. I had no friends and no common interests with anyone I met. I found that I got enraged by people who had no clue what The Met is and no interest in finding out. I couldn’t take seeing one more person wearing Patagonia and the straw that broke the camel’s back was when I realized I hadn’t worn heels in six months. I was a square peg trying to live my life in a round hole. I gave it a shot, but finally came to terms that I was trying to live a life that wasn’t for me. Besides, we all have done crazy things for love.

I realized that a place that may feel scary and overwhelming to some, felt safe and familiar to me. Another girl could be writing this same post saying that she hates the city and she finds it to be dirty, loud, and abrasive. It isn’t about which is better: the city or the suburbs. It’s all about finding the place that fits and feels like home.

Mama, I’m coming home.

xx,

WhyDid

Why Did You Wear That: Eye, Eye, Eye

By Kirsten|March 14th, 2012|Why Did You Wear That?, WhyDid Wisdom|

You’ve probably heard of the “evil eye” referenced in popular culture, but did you realize it dates back over five thousand years? From Turkey to Greece to Italy and even Ethiopia, it is one of the most widely spread superstitions.

You have also probably seen people wearing jewelry with an eye and wondered, “What’s that all about?” Well, you should certainly know what something means before you go prancing all over town wearing it, right? I mean, what if it meant “I’m a hooker”? Could lead to a lot of awkward conversations, no?

It is said that the “evil eye” is a look given to a person and depending on which culture you reference, the look could inflict bad luck, disease, or even death. That is why some people wear an eye as a talisman to ward off and protect against the evil eye.

1. Yummi Glass 24k Gold Gold Painted Murano Glass Evil Eye, $225, 2. iLuck Evil Eye Stretch Bracelet, $25, 3. Blee Inara Evil Eye Cluster Ring, $50, 4. Andrew Hamilton Crawford Evil Eye Necklace, $70, 5. House of Harlow 1960 Evil Eye Bracelet, $55, 6. Blee Inara Evil Eye Cluster Necklace, $40, 7. Brian Danielle Diamond Evil Eye Hamsa Necklace, $625

So, I guess I’m gonna go drape myself in these now. I certainly don’t need any more bad luck.

xx,

WhyDid

Why Did You Wear That: Bus Stop Blues

By Kirsten|March 13th, 2012|Personal Style, Why Did You Wear That?|

We’ve all been there. You know, enjoying the nightlife a little too much and having to face the consequences when the sun rises. In college we called them “shackers.” There’s nothing worse than having to evacuate the scene of the crime in last night’s LBD, stilettos, and authentic bed head. The walk of shame doesn’t have to be so shameful though. Keeping a pair of sunglasses in your bag and using a little imagination can keep you from looking like Pretty Woman when the morning comes. Borrowing a simple button down shirt and belt can create a super chic shirtdress in no time flat and no one will be the wiser. (Own that big hair though, girl).

denim shirt detail

denim shirt bus stop

shirt: borrowed, belt: borrowed, sunglasses: Oliver Peoples, boots: Kors Michael Kors, bag: Balenciaga, bracelets: Alex and Ani

1. Current/Elliot The Sarah Denim Shirt Dress, $126, 2. 2 Lips Too Capture Booties, $58.99, 3. Oliver Peoples Daddy B Sunglasses, $325, 4. Perry Ellis Reversible Belt, $42.50, 5. Balenciaga Arena Classic Town, $1,445

xx,

WhyDid

Setting the Mood: Takes Two To Tango

By Kirsten|March 12th, 2012|Setting the Mood|

Drum roll, please… In case you haven’t already heard, this year Pantone named Tangerine Tango the “color of the year.” And it couldn’t be better timing. What a perfect color for spring to offset your beautiful (faux) tan. This shade caught on early from the switch of crimson to coral lips and even little ol’ me was seen sporting tangy tangerine. The color is so big, in fact, that Sephora has even teamed up with Pantone to create a “crush” worthy collection of the citrus shade (which is available now). So get your glow on and grab something to brighten up your mood and your wardrobe in this year’s color of the year, Tangerine Tango.