After a brief hiatus (ever heard of the quarter life crisis?), I am back and in full effect. As I spent some quality time on the terrace perfecting my tan (always with SPF, people), plowing through some “summer reading”, and sipping on some summer cocktails, I also did a little deep thinking. There comes a point in every young woman’s life where she begins to reassess all aspects of her life- her relationships, her career (or lack thereof), and where she’s headed. While I won’t get into the nitty gritty personal details of my own quarter life crisis, I will leave you with this:
“Just because they make it in your size, doesn’t mean you should wear it.”
I realize that sounds like a pretty straightforward statement, but let’s go a little deeper here. Not only am I suggesting that wearing something unflattering for your figure is a bad call, but also that just because you “can” do something doesn’t mean that you should. For example, they say the reason that men cheat and dogs lick their balls is because “they can.” Well, in my book, neither of these are particularly appealing or socially acceptable. My point is, don’t do something that doesn’t feel right. It may or may not “fit” but how does it look? Hows does it feel?
Just something to think about. Carry on.
xx,
WhyDid
i’m glad you’re back.
I too have lost myself at times… usually in a marathon of episodes of “blind date”… but lost all the same.
Whenever i find myself unable to make choices, that inability to act is typically rooted in fear. And the only way to make the fear go away, is to take action.
So with that being said, I’m proud of you for gettin’ back at it.
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