A little over a month ago, I boarded a plane headed to a city I had always dreamt about going. I romanticized it in my mind. I built a pedestal and placed it there. I was in love with somewhere I’d never seen with my own eyes. This type of fantasizing can be treacherous territory and upon takeoff, my stomach and mind were aflutter with mixed feelings and emotions. Could it live up to my ideals? Would I be disappointed? Was my mental image better than the reality? Was it going to be like your favorite book being slaughtered when made into a movie? Would it be meeting your favorite movie star only to find out he/she is a grade A asshole? Nothing a few mini bottles of wine couldn’t mask for the next six and some change hours. Watching movies on an airplane provide iPad, a little light reading, a full meal, and a few naps later, we touched down in my dream destination. If you kept up with my adventures in parts un, deux, et trois, you know where I was and how deeply in love I fell. I’ve even threatened my beloved Manhattan of abandonment. While, I touched on a few things I learned on my journey in my last installment, there were plenty of other helpful traveling tips that I meant to write down in the moment, but will have to do now. Full disclosure: this is by no means a list that Conde Nast is going to stumble upon and syndicate. This is simply an American amateur’s take away from her first (of many future) visit to Paris, the city of light.
- A tip I actually did pick up from Conde Nast Traveler, was to skip the ritzy (and very pricey) hotels and rent an authentic Parisian apartment. You could go the Airbnb route or there are plenty of specifically dedicated vacation apartment rental companies in Paris. I used Paris Perfect and they were a dream to work with (not to mention the view of the Eiffel Tower from our claw foot bathtub).
- Learn this phrase, “Anglais, s’il vous plait.” (English, please). Everyone speaks English in Paris for the most part, however, many will start speaking to you in French (probably praying that you do, in fact, speak French). A lot of people will greet you in both French and English to see in which you respond. Also learn “bonsoir” (good evening), “allo” (hello), “merci” (thank you), “oui” (yes), “non” (no), “excusez-moi” (excuse me). Learning “poussez” (push) and “tirez” (pull) will also help you not look like an idiot when it comes to doors.
- If you have a little bit of French in your language arsenal, use it the best you can. We asked a native Parisian friend if it was more rude to slaughter the language or to act like an entitled American and not even attempt it. Her take was that it was charming when tourists tried to speak in foreign tongue.
- Have the address handy. You may think that you’ve pronounced the name correctly, but with an accent, Montague and Montaigne can quickly be confused by your driver and you’ll end up at the wrong destination.
- Drink champagne. The only decision you’ll need to make is rosé or brut.
- Eat bread. For whatever reason (though there are theories) many of my normally gluten sensitive friends have reported little to no issues carb loading abroad.
- Don’t order a cheeseburger. While the club sandwich seems to be on every menu at every brasserie in the city, slip out of your comfort zone and try something you can’t get in the U.S. or your own hometown.
- On that note, don’t be an American cliche. Try and dress the part. Upside: the less makeup, the better. Mascara, lipstick, messy hair, and good shoes.
- Tips are included in the bill. There’s no need to tip unless your service was truly extraordinary.
- BYOD (bring your own dog). My own dog is still throwing a temper tantrum about being left behind.
- Take advantage of the January sales. I didn’t shop the entire time I was there (don’t get me started), but you should.
- Do the more touristy things on the weekdays. Don’t forget that Europe is fairly small and many people from countries nearby, come in for the weekend to explore as well.
- I didn’t learn this until after I returned home, but flirting is a form of pleasantry. Be prepared to exchange banter with just any member or the opposite sex. My energy tends to be a bit more closed off to this type of behavior, so if you’re anything like me, you’ll have to be a little more open to flattery.
- Unlike New York, things close quite a bit earlier. Take advantage of your evening and the extra couple of hours of sleep you’ll get in order to wake up early and do it all over again.
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