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Why Did You Wear That: K.I.S.S. (Keep It Simple, Stupid)

By Kirsten|October 4th, 2011|Personal Style, Why Did You Wear That?|

We spend a lot of time gussying ourselves up for dates and “man hunting”, but what we forget is that all the bells and whistles are lost on the average straight man. Instead of dressing for the opposite sex, we pour into the latest trends and pile on the accessories, which all just confuse the male species. In case you’ve been living under a rock and have yet to check out the Man Repeller, she’s cornered the market on what makes men gag and she’s owning it. But my point is that men and women have very different ideas about fashion. Most men prefer simple, sexy, sleek – as was demonstrated a couple of summers ago. And while you may be perfectly on trend, you are no closer to making a male makeout friend.

Now, let’s be clear. I am not proposing looking up the closest bebe and purchasing the shortest, tightest item with the highest spandex content. The key is not to look like your local go-go dancer. The perfect date outfit is probably something you already own (and is far less trashtastic). Whether you’re planning a casual day date or something a bit more jazzy, the outfit remains the same (plus or minus a few key accessories). It’s so simple, you’re probably just going to smack your forehead when I tell you and say, “Doh!”

Get ready… Find your best fitting jeans and a simple clean white tank top. Ta-da!

I know. Who’da thunk it? Now another clarification, I know the whole black bra sticking out shtick was cool circa 2002– but we’ve moved past that and they make undergarments for that now.

1. MICHAEL Michael Kors Bel Air Watch, $295, 2. Converse Marimekko Jack Purcell Helen Sneakers, $75, 3. Skull Doggery Step In Harness, $65

For a fun and flirty daytime look, accessorize your jeans and tank with cute sneakers, an oversized watch, your favorite furry friend, and a fishtail braid if you’re feeling fancy. This look exudes “I’m fun! And pretty! Love me!”

1. Amrita Singh Apiya Multi-Strand Necklace, $78, 2. Christian Louboutin Rolando Patent Leather Platform Pump, $695, 3. Maybelline ColorSensational Lipcolor in Are You Red-dy, $6.63

Because you were so darn adorable all day long, your date is probably going to ask if you’d like to continue on with your romantic adventure. Wow him with your skills as a magician by swapping out your sneaks for heels, letting your hair loose, and adding some jewels and rep lips taking you from daytime cutie to evening beauty.

Now you’re speaking the style language of love.

xx,

WhyDid

Setting the Mood: Greyscale

By Kirsten|October 3rd, 2011|Setting the Mood|

It’s not true what they say. It does rain in California. Especially, Northern California. Today it has rained all day. I can’t lie though. Rain is sometimes a welcome change. The whole cheerful kingdom thing can get old and makes me long for a little grey weather. A little reality. I enjoy the rain so much that I actually waited to go for a run until it started raining. A neighbor stopped me cause he was worried about my well being, but I let him know that I was enjoying the downpour. I know. How very emo/hipster of me. There’s just something refreshing about it. You don’t have to feel guilty about holing up for the day and indulging in a book or comfort food. That said… let’s hope the sun comes out tomorrow.

xx,

WhyDid

Bag: Victoria Beckham Shopper Tote, $2,700

Umbrella: Marc by Marc Jacobs Panther Print Mini Umbrella, $60

Coat: Vivienne Westwood Red Label Oversized Wool-blend Coat, $605

Why Did You Eat That: This Little Piggy

By Kirsten|October 3rd, 2011|San Francisco (The Bay), Why Did You Eat That?|

While traipsing around San Francisco, running errands and popping into open houses (what? it’s okay to look), we managed to work up a little appetite. So, we stopped in for brunch at The Tipsy Pig to grab a quick bite. I have to say the name drew me in, but the menu is what got me to agree to stay.

To me, this place was like a grown up sports bar. There were plenty of other restaurants and bars nearby that were filled with loud SF fans… and I really can’t be bothered with that. The Tipsy Pig still had all the games on their several scattered TV’s, but I didn’t have to worry about a drunk jersey clad fool falling into my breakfast.

Speaking of booze, I don’t drink beer, but I could be persuaded with the way they named their sizes: Piglet (10oz), Pint (15oz), and Tipsy Pig (20oz). How cute is that? Oh, and apparently, they have a pretty extensive selection of beers for those of you who are interested. Instead I opted for a Mary Pig (bloody Mary) and my dining compadre tested out the root beer float (an adult beverage version). Both were delicious.

For our midday snack, we ordered the Pig’s Almost Famous Smoked Bacon Mac and Cheese (it was good… but I’ve had better) and the Pulled Pork Sloppy Joe to share. I was pleasantly surprised with the pulled pork and for a great recipe to try at home, click here.

So what would be a great outfit for a day of strolling and shopping? An outfit that won’t get you thrown out of an open house, but will still be comfortable when you curl up in a booth with a bloody Mary? I love colored skinny corduroys and a snuggly sweater. Throw a big fringe bag over your shoulder and wedge booties (still the height without the pain) and you’re good to go.

1. Polo Ralph Lauren Aberdare Sweater, $725, 2. Blank Skinny Corduroy Pants, $86, 3. Ember Skye Tote, $468, 4. Charlotte Russe Multi Sized Metallic Bangles, $4, 5. Elizabeth and James Manor Wedge Booties, $375

Everybody’s gettin’ tipsy.

xx,

WhyDid

Look for Less: Leather Weather

By Kirsten|October 2nd, 2011|Look for Less, Why Did You Wear That?|

So maybe you’re not the “skin”tight leather dress kinda girl. That’s okay, cause you can still incorporate leather into your life in a more casual, less Catwoman way. From Paris to LA, celebrities have been seen sporting their second skins all over town. While the look is undoubtedly sexy, it can be expensive. You can check this out blog for the best leather history related blog. That’s why there are some great faux leather (or “vegan” as we’re calling it now- tomato, tomato) options out there. This is one time when it’s okay to fake the funk.

1. Rachel Zoe Bianca Sequin Top, $275, 2. Top Shop Faux Leather Skinny Trousers, $66, 3. MICHAEL Michael Kors Sloan Oversized Clutch, $248, 4. Blu Bijoux Gold Tear Drop Multi Strand Earrings, $46, 5. La Fenice Eden Suede Platform Booties, $175

1. J. Crew Burnout Linen T-Shirt, $35, 2. Express (Minus the) Leather Seamed Mini Skirt, $59.90, 3. Forever21 Oval Sunglasses, $5.80, 4. Top Shop Mixed Fabric Chain Bag, $56, 5. Ash Hidden Platform Leather Pump, $195

1. Vince Hi Lo Sweater, $159.99, 2. Karl Lagerfeld for Impulse Skinny Faux Leather Pants, $99, 3. Cara Leather and Metal Cuff, $31.90, 4. Kelsi Dagger Teya Studded Platform Pumps, $149

xx,

WhyDid

P.S. Might I point out that both pairs of “leather” pants on here are not leggings. Please do not go strutting around town in pleather leggings without a top long enough to cover your v-dot.

Weekend Playlist: Hit Me Baby One More Time

By Kirsten|October 1st, 2011|Weekend Playlist|

This week, let’s take a little walk down memory lane, shall we? Remember all the songs that we loved so much, but then forgot they ever existed (kind of like butterfly clips and pleather)? Great as they were, sadly, they were only one hit wonders. As I scrolled through these songs, It occurred to me that I still love a lot of these songs. It also occurred to me that some of you young little sprites have probably never even heard of them. Man, I’m getting old.

Right Said Fred – I’m Too Sexy

Willa Ford – I Wanna Be Bad

Chumbawumba – Tubthumper

Hanson – MMMBop

Dee Lite – Groove Is in the Heart

Vanilla Ice – Ice Ice Baby

Los Del Rio – Macarena

Sir Mix-a-lot – Baby Got Back

Billy Ray Cyrus – Achy Breaky Heart

Wreckx-n Effect – Rump Shaker

4 Non Blondes – What’s Up

Tag Team – Whoomp There It Is

Skee -Lo – I Wish

The Cardigans – Lovefool

K.P. & Envyi – Swing My Way

SoulDecision – Faded

t.A.T.u. – All the Things She Said

Lumidee – Never Leave You

Eamon – Fuck It

Snow – Informer